Showing posts with label Ethan. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Ethan. Show all posts

Saturday, March 23, 2013

Saturday

The rost is simmering, and Graeme is waiting his turn to make a batch of cookies while Ethan finishes placing the cherry cookie dough on the sheet.

We are wondering how many cookies it takes to fill the Companion Cube Cookie Jar. Later we are headed to see the student production of Les Miserable at Patrick Henry.

Tuesday, November 27, 2012

A little perspective, if you please

I am not a Stay At Home Mom.
I don't do homeschooling, and my house isn't nearly as neat as I wish it were.
  • I work 40+ hours a week in an office in a career.
  • I transport three children to three different places every morning.
  • I pack lunches and supplies for the toddler every weekday morning.
  • I work out (mostly) every weekday morning and once on the weekends.
  • I read at least one book a month (sometimes as much as a book a week, even).
  • I knit. Right now the average is about one project a month, and by project I mean garment.
  • I host friends over at least once a month.
  • My son hosts friends over for D&D about once a week.
  • I drop the teen and 'tween boys at karate four times a week.
  • I play with my daughter one-on-one for an hour while my sons are at karate.
  • I cook, mostly organic, usually scary nutritious, often from scratch (less lately than I used to and less than I would like to).
  • I do laundry and the dishes.
  • I clean bathrooms and floors.
  • I take out the trash.
  • I send email and keep in touch with my friends, both local and long-distance. Even if the message isn't a long one, it is heartfelt and that much comes through.
  • I haven't baked much in the last six weeks, but before that we were making most of our own bread. And soups. And they were amazing.
  • I manage the medical and other appointments for us all.
  • I pay the bills, mostly on time, even.
  • I am working on organizing stuff, and doing a pretty good job of it, but it's not nearly done yet.
  • I decorate for the holidays.

So can I stop giving myself crap now for feeling as though I don't do enough?

Wednesday, November 7, 2012

The Dawn of a New Day

While I am walking to Mount Doom, I have gotten some good advice, not the least of which was that I shouldn't be putting my heart rate above 150 given my recent history. So when I tried the elliptical machine this morning and saw a rate of 147 after only three minutes, I bailed and headed back to my friend, the bike. Alessandra joined me, and we went another 4.5 miles today, still on Stock Road, but into the rolling hills part. A sense of foreboding is peppering the day as we approach the forest.

Also, I am hungry. I mean, ravenous. I don't even like bananas, and I nearly knocked the produce guy down trying to get one after biking this morning. I ate it while the children had their breakfasts and I made Vivian's lunch. I started with orange juice and the banana, and I really haven't stopped yet. I'm having flashbacks to when I was on the swim team back when I was 15.

The children continue to be fantastic. [Although Ethan was a little disappointed that the election results mean we will not be moving to New Zealand, he can live with it.] Ethan and Graeme are continuing to rack up Level One points in the mornings, and by being helpful in the evening. I'm looking into karate classes for them at their request.

Sunday, October 21, 2012

Sunday

Listening to Ethan work piano finger exercises and just proud as can be. The exercises are difficult and tedious, but he is doing a great job and being careful to learn the correct form as well as simply Getting It Over With.
Watched the meteor shower from a truck bed with comforters and hot chocolate in the pre-dawn chill. It was more adventuresome than spectacular but still a great time. The cold seeped into the back injury and I have been creaking all day. Still totally worth it.
I took measurements for both boys' upper body. Graeme said, "Why are you doing this? I don't want a sweater." I smiled and asked if he still wanted me to make him a cape. He replied by holding the measuring tape without question.
The sleeves to the Fathertime sweater are nearly done. After that, a little bit of work on the neck remains and then it will be ready to wash and block. Given that it is my first garment with real shaping, I'm pretty excited.
Every time I wear the capelet out, I get comments, questions and compliments. All of that is a completely surprising by-product, and is reaffirming of the time I put into it.
Back to work tomorrow. Apparently it has been weighing on my mind more than I realized, as all my dreams this morning after the stargazing were filled with work meeting and were weird beyond the pale. Fortunately, I doubt tomorrow's reality will be able to hold a fraction of the strange that my subconscious came up with.

Wednesday, September 26, 2012

Wednesday, December 30, 2009

Snow Day Fun

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Wednesday, December 16, 2009

The First Football Game of 2009-2010 Season

Ethan and Graeme and I had a wonderful time at the first ball game. Just at the end, he decided to show his brother the *awesome* vantage point he had found and ended up clothselining himself into a cervical collar and an ambulance ride. He was fine, and quite lucky. And all the high school cheerleaders came to make sure he was ok.

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Friday, September 4, 2009

And away they go



Ethan was groaning about putting on a helmet when David picked him up from karate. A passing by parent looked at him and said, "You take karate and you ride a motorcycle? It doesn't get any cooler than that."

Tuesday, April 14, 2009

An eventful weekend it was.

On Saturday, Ethan took his test for the yellow belt. Keira arrived from New Hampshire just in time to hop in the car and join David and I to watch Ethan absolutely nail his kata. Ethan received his next belt and a grade of an A, one of only two in the class. David got to sit in the dojo and take pictures, which was wonderfully accommodating and supportive of the staff. Did I mention how much I like this program? The instructor, Grand Master Thomas, is wonderful, not only in his ability (which is a big wow), but in his attitude. When the students are ready for a belt test, they then have to be invited by the school and have to have both teachers and parents comments on their attitudes and performance outside of the school. Only then can they have the opportunity to test in front of the panel, which is intimidating in itself. Congratulations, Ethan. You earned it.

Wednesday, September 24, 2008

The happy couple

September 24, 2008 The ceremony was beautiful, with Rev. Claire coming to the house from Charlottesville and David's family coming up as well. The sun was setting, the air was crisp and the mountains were beginning their autumnal glory as we exchanged vows and rings. What a fine day.

Friday, August 29, 2008

Wrapping it up for August

Ethan takes his first stripe-test in karate today. Eddie, or Grand Master to the rest of us, has the students take a test each Friday on what they learned that week. Very cool. Good luck, Ethan, and congratulations on a great first week. The picture is a self-portrait taken in May. Heck of a good job on that, too. On the car front, the news isn't really as good. I found a smart car with a micro-hybrid drive, which gets 70+ mpg, but (of course) it's not available in the states. This makes me want to spend Thanksgiving in the UK (o the irony in that statement), buy the car while we are over there and ship it back. Frankly, it would likely still be more affordable than buying a smart car on the lot in the US, where price gouging is selling the 13 - 15K car for 18 - 24k. I'm all about opportunism, but there does come a point where business is driven elsewhere. And 70 mpg is a real consideration for me. Gasoline prices rose for the first time in more than a month, and while it wasn't a large increase as these things go (nine-tenths of a cent), it marks what is likely the end of the relief, such as it was. "Overall, gas prices have fallen off their highs in recent weeks. But prices at the pump are still 33% above the same time last year, when a gallon of gas cost $2.769." When David and I sit down and go over our budget for the coming year, we plan on seeing $4 gas again soon, and take into consideration the very real possibility of $5. While our incomes aren't stellar or anything, they are certainly considered a living wage. How do other families do this? Whatever their strategies or secrets, other families apparently are seeing the end of the relief as well: "Personal income fell in July by the biggest drop in 3 years after surging the prior two months". Overall, things aren't looking great for the coming few months. Speaking of the coming winter, it was cold and rainy this week. Thankfully, it will warm up a bit, but it is obviously autumnal warmth at that. I refuse to turn on the heat before Labor Day, and thus begins my annual battle to see just how long I can go before I break down and say sweatshirts and exercise are just not enough.

Wednesday, July 16, 2008

Happy Birthday and a baker's dozen

Happy Birthday, Ethan! Ethan is ten today, and I have no idea what we are doing for his party this weekend, but I'm looking forward to it. Somewhere, I see the gazebo, some iced cream and Popsicles, hot dogs, and fun time. Maybe bubbles; who knows? I was poking around at NPR's site today, after having cataloged some new books at the library last night. I ended up with a list of ones that, from the reviews, I certainly would like to read. So here are my as-yet-unread recommendations to me, along with the review that caught my imagination.
  1. The Thin Place, by Kathryn Davis
    Kathryn Davis' novel is a mesmerizing and mysterious tale that opens with three adolescent friends on an aimless walk: There were three girlfriends and they were walking down a trail that led to a lake. One small and plump, one pretty and medium-sized, one not so pretty and tall. This was in the early years of the twenty-first century, the unspeakable having happened so many times everyone was still in shock, still reeling from what they'd seen, what they'd done or failed to do. The dead souls no longer wore gowns. They'd gotten loose, broadcasting their immense soundless chord through the precincts of the living. In five short sentences Davis sets the stage for this remarkable and unpredictable story set in Varennes, a town near the Canadian border. The town's denizens seem ordinary enough: Helen Zeebrugge copes with the various indignities of old age; ex-hippie Andrea Murdock researches the past; Buddy the dog does his doggy doings; Gigi the cat works on fully experiencing every one of her nine lives; and 12-year-old Mees tries to understand the strange gift she's been given. But Varennes is a "thin place," a shimmering, permeable division between the real and the inchoate, between the living and the dead, and strange things happen almost as a matter of routine. Davis uses a variety of points of view to tell her story, including those of two- and four-legged animals, but to give a plot summary would be unfair to readers — suffice it to say that you've never read anything like this before. [Review by Nancy Pearl]
  2. The Greatest Thing Since Sliced Bread, by Don Robertson
    You'll laugh, you'll cry, you'll totally delight in meeting 9-year-old Morris Bird III (whom some classmates unkindly call Morris Bird the Turd) as he decides to skip school one autumn afternoon in 1944 and walk across Cleveland to visit his best friend, Stanley Chaloupka. Morris sets off with an alarm clock, a dollar and some change, a jar of Peter Pan Peanut Butter, a map, a compass and — to his great dismay — his 6-year-old sister, Sandra. Along the way he gets delayed by a cigarette riot and Sandra's whining insistence that she be allowed to play a game of jacks. He also drop-kicks a football into a coal wagon (much to the annoyance of the football's young owners) and is rescued by Miss Edna Daphne Frost. Eventually, as the afternoon winds down, Morris and Sandra collide with history; they arrive at Stanley's block at the exact moment when above-ground gas tanks belonging to the East Ohio Gas Company explode. (The explosion and subsequent fire would kill 130 people and destroy a square mile of Cleveland's east side.) Among the many other wonderfully drawn characters we meet are a passionate optician named G. Henderson LeFevre and the object of his lust, Mrs. Imogene Brookes, who is described as "a rare beauty if there ever was one, a woman of immense passions and appetites who really didn't belong there in Shaker Heights living out her years in a succession of blank matronly conditioned activities and responses." I loved Don Robertson's The Greatest Thing Since Sliced Bread when it was first published in the early 1960s, and I am thrilled that a whole new generation of readers is now going to read it, too. [Review by Nancy Pearl]
  3. Bangkok 8, by John Burdett
    If you like your suspense novels set in exotic locales and you have a high tolerance for grisly and gruesome crimes, then you won't want to miss John Burdett's Bangkok 8. Thai police detective Sonchai Jitpleecheep stars in this adrenaline-fueled more-or-less mystery that is distinguished by smart (frequently witty) dialogue, a terrific depiction of place and plot twists galore. The plot involves jade smuggling, sexually deviant behavior and death by snake venom; figuring out what's going on sends Sonchai (who struggles to reconcile his Buddhist beliefs with his knowledge of humanity at its worst) deep into the criminal and sexual underworld of Thailand's biggest city. I found Burdett's presentation of the Thai sex trade fascinating; it reflects an attitude toward sex that is very different from Western sensibilities, and is apparently characteristic of the Buddhist influence on Thai culture. Bangkok 8 is not the sort of book that I would have ever thought I'd enjoy — it's way too violent and grungy for my normal reading tastes — but I was totally won over by Sonchai and Burdett's insights into the depths and peaks of human behavior. [Review by Nancy Pearl]
  4. Sunshine, by Robin McKinley
    I have never been a fan of novels with vampires in them. In fact, until recently I'd never read horror fiction at all — I've always felt that real life is scary enough before you add the supernatural to the mix. But I've always loved the novels of award-winning fantasy writer Robin McKinley, and a friend whose book smarts I respected recommended McKinley's novel Sunshine, so I (somewhat hesitantly) picked it up, started reading and found — to my surprise — that I couldn't put it down. Set in a world quite similar to ours in the time just after the Voodoo Wars, Rae Seddon, who's nicknamed Sunshine, is driving home from a baking stint at her stepfather's café when she is kidnapped by a group of vampires and locked in the ballroom of an old house. It soon becomes clear that she's intended to provide the main course of a meal for their starving captive, the powerful, handsome and enigmatic Constantine — who also happens to be a vampire. But Constantine, going against everything Sunshine thought she knew about vampires, resists his powerful urge to drink her blood, and the two form an uneasy alliance against their joint captors. Just in time, Sunshine discovers that she has apparently inherited the magical talents that run through the blood of her long-absent father's side of the family, and she contrives to set herself and Constantine free. But that's when her troubles really begin … [Review by Nancy Pearl]
  5. Metzger's Dog, by Thomas Perry
    Perhaps all you need to know to decide whether to read Thomas Perry's thriller Metzger's Dog is that Dr. Henry Metzger happens to be a cat. … So, if you're hankering for a humorous crime story, you can't do better than this one. The delectably complicated plot revolves around Leroy "Chinese" Gordon and his group of antisocial pals who break into a UCLA professor's office in order to score some cocaine, but find, instead, detailed instructions for bringing a major urban city to its knees. Think Los Angeles, think traffic, think roadblock, think gridlock — then think what the CIA might do after phase one plays itself out, in order to stop these geniuses from producing further mayhem. It's up to agent Ben Porterfield to try to broker a deal with Chinese, his friends and his beautiful and brilliant girlfriend, Margaret — not to mention Metzger's dog. [Review by Nancy Pearl] The Other by Thomas Tryon A fine example of why first books are worth seeking out comes in the form of a reissue of the 1971 debut novel by actor-turned-writer Thomas Tryon. Known for parts in science fiction and horror films (including the title role in I Married a Monster from Outer Space), Tryon quit acting after a stint working for Otto Preminger and took up writing. His first novel is a subtle, insinuating portrait of psychological decay and transference between identical twin boys born, incongruously, on different days (one before, the other just after midnight) and with different Zodiac signs. The author's own ambiguous life — that of a gay man in the movies at a time when such sexuality was not to be openly discussed — informs the undercurrents in his portrayal of a town infected by madness and murder. The 2008 reissue includes a perceptive introduction by British horror novelist and critic Ramsey Campbell, and several new pieces of artwork by noted surrealist Harry O. Morris. [Rick Kleffel]
  6. Petite Anglaise, by Catherine Sanderson
    Blogger-turned-novelist Catherine Sanderson capitalizes on her popular online journal in a novel ripped from the blog-lines of her life. The title means "little English woman," which, depending on how you spin it, can be either affectionate or cutting. Catherine Sanderson (the protagonist) finds herself in Paris but falling out of love with Frog, the father of her daughter, Tadpole. She's no longer keen on her admin career and turns to the Internet, where she uses the popular "blogger" software to create the titular online persona. But what starts as a lark becomes a virtual romance, and life imitates Second Life in a 21st century Cyrano — minus the big schnoz. Sanderson's witty blog translates well as she leans on the truth-turns-to-fiction button. Her prose is infectious, and even when things are dire for her character, they're a delight for the reader. [Rick Kleffel]
  7. The Boat, by Nam Le
    First books that collect short stories by a single author are rare; it's an honor given only to the best writers. Vietnamese-born Nam Le offers ample evidence of immense talent in his debut collection, The Boat. Le writes in a remarkable variety of voices and tones, with prose so transparent you won't necessarily even notice that you're reading. You'll simply disappear into the characters and lives Le creates, whether it's a 14-year-old hit man in Columbia ("Cartagena") or an aging New York painter preparing to see his daughter's debut in Carnegie Hall ("Meeting Elise"). At least three of the stories, including the previously unpublished "Halflead Bay," come in at novella length. Another heretofore-unpublished story, "Tehran Calling," is an unexpected thriller set in the Iranian capital. You'll have a hard time finding common threads here besides stellar writing. [Rick Kleffel]
  8. One More Year, by Sana Krasikov
    The temporary textures of lives in transit thread through the short stories in Sana Krasikov's debut collection, which focuses on Russian immigrants and exiles, characters who have been uprooted so often and so violently that their only notion of home is that which they carry within themselves. Krasikov's tales of emigres and escapees remind the reader just how different the short story form is from a novel. "Maia in Yonkers," in which a woman from Tblisi who has managed to get a footing in America receives a brief visit from her now-teenaged son, is a little miracle of compression. In "Companion," Ilona is a young Russian divorce who has become the live-in companion to Earl, an older man who permits her to stay with him even as she unsuccessfully (and humorously) dates men closer to her own age. When Earl has a heart attack, his son and daughter, Lawrence and Lucinda, show up and suggest that she'll need to find some other place to live. "Like anyone else, Lawrence would be gracious until the time came to be cruel," writes Krasikov. Krasikov's characters find it harder than most to make ends meet mentally and financially, and the author is brilliant at putting the reader seamlessly into these unmoored lives — giving us a lifetime of disarray and departures in a few compelling paragraphs. [Rick Kleffel]
  9. The Magicians and Mrs. Quent, by Galen Beckett
    On the island nation of Altania, the Lockwell sisters make do while their father, perhaps injured by his experiments with "magick," remains sequestered in the library of their home. Ivy, the eldest and the most beautiful, is the studious sister, known for reading as she walks down a street; Lily is the romantic; Rose, a bit of a prophet. Ivy accepts an offer from her father's friend, Mr. Quent, who requests that she come to his country home to act as governess for his two young wards. There she discovers that her family is part of a secret society and that magick is not just a fashionable pastime, but perhaps more powerful than she ever suspected. Though this may look like the sort of book you'd find nestled in a shelf of paperback potboilers at a beach rental, don't judge The Magicians and Mrs. Quent by its cover. Galen Beckett's debut cleverly mixes fantasy and literary in a novel that imagines the social strictures that hemmed in Austen's and Bronte's heroines are the result of magical intervention. The novel's supernatural elements and imaginary (but familiar-seeming) setting allow Beckett to examine class and economic conflicts from the outside, without resorting to polemics. The result is a work that mixes the rich pleasures of a Victorian epic with elements of the fantastic, an imaginative eye and a dry sense of humor. [Rick Kleffel]
  10. The Wolfman, by Nicholas Pekearo
    Author Nicholas Pekearo was a volunteer cop who was killed in the line of duty on March 14, 2007, in the Greenwich Village neighborhood where he grew up. He offers what we hope for in a first novel: a raw voice bristling with energy. Dishonorably discharged after a tour in Vietnam, Marlowe Higgins is a man wrapped around a beast who must kill. He cannot stop the wolfman within, but he can make sure that those he kills deserve to die. It's vigilante justice meted out by a monster, a police procedural with fangs and claws. As a first-person narrator, Higgins tells his story in a rough vernacular that's not just unreliable — he also seems dangerous and unpredictable. Every sentence creates tension because it's just not clear how far Higgins will be pushed or how far he will go. Pekearo taps into a current of anger so pure that the metaphor of the werewolf becomes a natural outlet, rather than simply a supernatural one. Powerful without polish, The Wolfman may star a supernatural detective, but it reads like a gritty retro-crime thriller. You can feel the street in the prose of this energetic and tragic debut. [Rick Kleffel]
  11. Lady of the Snakes, by Rachel Pastan
    Rachel Pastan's novel, Lady of the Snakes, came out in February, but I've been saving it, because I had a hunch that it would be my idea of the perfect summer book — and was I ever right. Lady of the Snakes is a literary mystery crossed with a funny, feminist commentary on marriage — think A.S. Byatt linking arms in sisterhood with chick-lit champs Susan Isaacs and Jennifer Weiner. I was hooked from the opening scene, which finds Pastan's heroine, Jane Levitsky, a hotshot graduate student in Russian literature, in the midst of 20 gruesome hours of labor. Finally, in a delivery room smelling of "ocean and rust," she gives birth to a daughter. When a nurse places the newborn in Jane's arms, her first thought is that "the bundle was so light it seemed to weigh less than the completed chapters of her dissertation." Jane is an expert on the novels of the (fictitious) 19th century Russian writer and cad, Grigory Karkov, and also on the diaries of his tormented wife, Masha. As the story unfolds, Jane struggles with the demands of being on both the mommy track and the tenure track, as well as with the sense that her seemingly emancipated life has some queasy similarities to Masha's wifely serfdom. Crack open Lady of the Snakes on the beach, and I predict your funny bone and brain will be exercised while your bathing suit stays dry. [Review by Maureen Corrigan]
  12. The People on Privilege Hill, by Jane Gardam
    A few balmy nights ago, at an outdoor party filled with English professors, I mentioned to a small group that I had belatedly discovered the extraordinary British writer Jane Gardam. Four out of my five colleagues looked blank; the fifth, our host, ran into his house and came out with two early Gardam novels that he insisted I take home and read immediately! I think that mixed reaction typifies Gardam familiarity in this country: Since a lot of her books are hard to find here, even many voracious readers don't know her. So I'm declaring Jane Gardam my late-blooming discovery of the summer. In July, Europa Editions is publishing her short-story collection, The People on Privilege Hill, which is a stylistic hodgepodge of wit and weirdness, compassion and even a few examples of the classic supernatural tale. The title story features Sir Edward Feathers, "Old Filth," who's a recurring character. My Gardam-loving friends assure me that her 2004 novel, Old Filth, is wonderful beyond description and that her 1991 epistolary novel, The Queen of the Tambourine, is even better. I plan to plant myself in the sand in August and find out if they're right. [Review by Maureen Corrigan]

Thursday, February 7, 2008

a matter of mindset

It’s a matter of mindset. My whole outlook right now can be summed up as a matter of will: I refuse to freak out. Ethan’s schooling troubles have gone from bad to worse to worst this week. On the one hand, this is troubling, of course. On the other, it’s relieving: I have decided I simply refuse to assume responsibility for Everything and have started communications (with the school’s full support) at various special educational facilities in the valley. So far I’m favoring Minnick, but as yet it is not a foregone conclusion. The school staff and David and I are having a meeting next week to determine where Ethan will be placed and how soon we can get him started. This is good news to me, not bad; it means that I am not the only one looking into alternatives anymore, that I am not the only one saying “this is not working.” So there – I feel as though I have more support than ever, frankly. David and I continue to work on our relationship, and this week we have covered quite meaningful ground. For his part, I have total sympathy: it can’t be easy to be invaded by three people with large and distinctly different personalities. And yet he has been, and has fallen in love with each of us. His life would be far simpler without our involvement, yet he has decided that the love and caring is more worthwhile than irritating, even when it is a hassle. Happy New Year. An online prediction for the upcoming Year of the Rat claims:
The year 2008 will be a year of possibilities, a time of progress; although, it may not generally be spectacular. Those who take the biggest risks could be disappointed. Everyone should, nevertheless, add something new to their lives.
For me, I predict that my life will smooth out (or ‘smoothen,’ as Graeme is fond of saying), and that this family will solidify and move forward in a way that is both meaningful and powerful. We’re cool like that.

Thursday, January 24, 2008

recent events

The boys seem to have been out of school the past two weeks more than they have been in it. Between dental appointments and weather closings, this has been the strangest back-to-school month I think I have ever seen. On the positive side, we love our new family dentists. Dr. Mills specializes in children's dentistry, and the boys can't say enough wonderful things about her and her staff. Given that they used to lose sleep before seeing a dentist before meeting Dr. Mills, I think this is simply marvelous. Yesterday school started at the scheduled time for the first time all week. Of course, we ended up needing to take Ethan to have his hand x-rayed just to verify that Tuesday's fall wasn't any more serious than soft-tissue damage. Ethan and David went to an immediate care clinic in Salem together, and made the best of it, enjoying a late lunch at Five Guys before trucking back up the mountain to school. For his part, Ethan was a real trooper through the whole thing. David rescheduled his own appointment and does indeed have a serious sinus infection that has decided to make itself known in his lungs as well. He felt horrible this morning, and I'm keeping my ear out for pneumonia, which aside from being A Really Scary Thing to me, is also pretty serious. Between school weirdness, weather, dental and doctor appointments, David and I do somehow manage to show up to our jobs on occasion, mostly through tag team efforts1. My job is going quite well, and I’m enjoying adding additional products to my testing responsibilities. I’ve just been ‘officially’ given my second piece of software to manage and I’m enjoying figuring out how it all fits together. It has a quite intricate interface, with multiple drop-in components, each with their own configuration, so I certainly haven’t any lack of intellectual work in front of me. And, as always with software, there is a release deadline sitting right on top of another build, so the pace isn’t anything to sneeze at, either. David has likewise seen his lab get into some serious R&D stuff, so the schedule there is tight and demanding and weird as only a biological lab would be. On this upside, they are doing some cool development stuff, and chatting about work is far from the typical ‘how was your day’ fare. We are also enjoying our time at home, weirdly scheduled though it might be. This past weekend we took yet another trip to Floyd, this time with the boys, and visited School House fabrics (which the boys tolerated), the general store (which the boys loved) and a custom woodworker’s storefront. We had dinner at the Mexican restaurant and ended up poking around in the clothes store, where I picked up a new pair of pants and a sweater than I just fell in love with. We ended up designing ever-so-many things, and it was a nice outing, all told. Sunday we had plans aplenty from which to choose: we ended up scrapping them all, staying inside and making a carrot cake. How yummy and cozy was that? The boys are looking forward to more snow, as the recent acquisition of snow-discs had them howling with glee on Thursday and Friday as they turned the driveway into a slalom course. David took the tractor and scraped the snow into banks around trees and at the end of the driveway, and I swear they would have stayed out until hypothermia set in if we hadn’t tempted them back with warm food and hot chocolate. At home we are watching netflix and library selections, with a few randomly selected episodes of Firefly just for fun. David and I watched Babel (not so great: quite dislocated and dislocating, perhaps by design) and The Devil Wears Prada (wonderful and funny). From the library the whole family watched Holes (outrageously funny and cute), The River Wild (a touching and exciting tale) and The Dangerous Lives of Alter Boys (serious and thought-provoking, despite the humor; an entry on the Must See List). Those are all on their way back, and I'm looking forward to our next installment this weekend. 1. More than ever, this month I feel as though we are the Wonder Twins, assessing the latest split-second development, declaring "Form of. . a taxi!”" and dashing out the door in our various directions.

Monday, March 5, 2007

yes, i read the almanac


Thanks to Nate for sending along the picture of the lunar elcipse from the other side; pretty, isn't it? While David and i were driving home Saturday evening (after a much-needed trip to Sam's Club), I pointed out the emerging crescent. The boys and David and I watched the eclipse finish its path across the moon as we made our way up the mountain. My face pressed against the cool glass of the passenger window, I confessed: "The full moon in March is called the Worm moon. I meant to look it up, but I didn't." David asked me how it was that i knew the eclipse was coming up, and that it was a full moon that night. "Uh, i read it in the Farmer's Almanac?" I felt like a dork, but it's true -- the almanac provides a lot of my random farm-based information, and it's not really more sophisticated than that. I'm a weird-information junkie, and i like knowing stuff about the world in which i live; the two come together to produce a fascination of named things. In the case of the names of the full moon, i found a list online. For the latest on what is going on, i tend to visit more authorative sources. and while i was visiting, i found what i'd like to get Tiger for his birthday in July. my mind has an endless capacity for useless information.

Cool things this weekend:
  • On Saturday morning we went out and rode Nitro (the Freesian). Everyone got a turn except David, who was doing the lead-around-the-field thing. We meant to ride longer and share more, but Nitro was slipping in the still-wet grass, so it was a brief outing. Satisfying though. Note: Nitro is one heck of a lot of horse. At 17 hands and over a ton-and-a-half, it seriously changed my approach to riding when i was in the saddle. He got a little frisky, jumping and swishing a bit, and it was noticable in a way it simply isn't in smaller horses. I felt small and insignificant, but in a nice way.
  • After riding, we went to town and looked at furniture. We need a new dining table and the boys need height-appropriate dressers. We were more of the get-ideas-and-go-home-and-make-it mindset, and i think we might have figured out a solution to the boys' organization at long last (yes, it involves the woodshop and not a credit card).
  • David introduced us to the age-old board game Careers and we had a ball. The game he has is so old that all the little score sheets are used up and have been erased and re-erased into onion skin. I hopped on the computer and made a new set, which we tested on Sunday night while the clothes finished washing and the boys fell asleep. David won, but i was only a hunderd dollars from victory. [A hunnerd!]
  • The Sam's trip did my heart good in a way that i simply find difficult to describe. We have twelve pounds of rice and a big honking case of Charmin. We are beginning the Pantry Stock, and such are the things that calm me, especially as i haven't found a contract yet. (Yes, they keep saying there are tons of things out there for me. None of them comes through, though. It's that overeducated, overqualified thing again.)
  • We had dinner on Friday night with Michael, which was a treat for us all. As he came in, Tiger looked at him and said "Did i mention that I think of you as a brother?" Michael was telling him yes, and that it was cool when Tiger then informed him that he could now join him in playing The Mime Game.
  • Sunday was mostly calm and quiet, with house chores and movies and tree removal (when the axe broke, David got to show off the chainsaw before literally man-handling the tree into submission. My own personal superhero.)

this morning was a comedy of near-errors, but that's another story for another time. Hopefully, the day is on track once again.