Sunday, August 31, 2025

Fruits of our Labor

It’s Labor Day weekend here in the States, a time when we celebrate the fruits of our labor, and allow ourselves time and space to reflect on the work that has been.

The garden harvest turns to fall-colored things, deeply colored and golden. My favorite winter squash is delicata, the first variety to come to harvest, and one of the simplest to prepare, almost as if the garden said, “Here, take a rest and enjoy the fruits of your labor.”

Delicata plants are prolific, inviting us to gather friends, tell them to fetch a squash from the vine, and tell stories as they roast whole in the oven for 45 minutes. 

Set a pot of black lentils up while the oven is going, and serve as a hearty side. Start with a salad of baby kale and baby spinach, the first tender leaves coming forth from the second planting, and top with sunflower seeds and dried cranberries. Dress with garlic apple cider vinaigrette. 

Sunday, August 17, 2025

All struggles

All struggles
Are essentially 
power struggles.
Who will rule,
Who will lead,
Who will define,
refine,
confine,
design,
Who will dominate.
All struggles
Are essentially
power struggles,
And most
are no more intellectual
than two rams
knocking their heads together.
—Earthseed: The Books of the Living

Saturday, July 26, 2025

To get along with God

To get along with God, 
Consider the consequences of your behavior.
—Earthseed: the Books of the Living 
Parable of the Sower, Octavia Butler

Friday, July 25, 2025

An oasis of boredom in a desert of horror.

2023 was an oasis of boredom in a desert of horror.
As so often, I found comfort in Camus—the artist blooming in the desert, simply because they can—and also in Netflix, and mundane work, housekeeping, and the most Jane Austen of notions, that of “passing time.”

Sunday, July 20, 2025

The Destiny of Earthseed

The Destiny of Earthseed
Is to take root among the stars.
—Earthseed: the Books of the Living 
Parable of the Sower, Octavia Butler

Tuesday, July 15, 2025

Welcome to the Road

Geo And I took our first intentional road trip today, a not-long journey to the north to a funeral home. We met up with some not-so-distant relatives that we hadn’t seen in ages. Paperwork was completed and signed. Hugs and phone numbers exchanged. 

On the way home, Geo asked about family history and lore. Stories were told, songs were sung, and we barely noticed the heat. Stories continued along with dinner while we played cards, and into the dark hours, after watching Spirit yet again. 

Welcome to the Road, Beauty.
This is the Way.

Saturday, July 12, 2025

Saturday Social

It’s been a long time since I’ve been quite this social, and been this social for so many days in a row. In the last fortnight, I found myself reaching into a bank of ways to be that I haven’t used in ages. The newness wasn’t surprising; the delightfulness was, though.

 Today’s foray into the world included a gorgeous conversation in Bibliopub, a place that I’m coming to think of as “my local,” as the Brits would say. Yes, there’s alcohol, but the sense of home is made by the stacks of books, the perfect cup of tea, the couch that feels like an old friend and stretches long, inviting conversation to stretch, too. 

Lori and I had passed more than two hours before I thought to look at the time, surprised at how comfortable we both were and how the conversation had taken a journey of its own.  The pounding rain arrived just as we did, and did its worst while we were inside discussing road trips, band camp, life moments, good books, and the secrets to life, the Universe, and everything.



Once home, the red sauce that I had set up earlier in the day greeted me with a welcome that smelled savory and inviting. I haven’t made red sauce from scratch in a handful of years, and didn’t realize that this was what that was missing, the last ingredient needed to have the Loft feel like home. 

Geo and I set up the pasta and tossed together a salad while the noodles boiled. I taught them how to play Hand & Foot last week, and they are now regularly running the table. Tonight was no exception: they wiped the floor with me on the third hand. Conversation turned to anything and everything, with laughter and stories and Tales From Back When as well as delights from right now, and things that might yet be. This is the magic of cards, of meals together, of life simply lived.

We put the rest of the spaghetti away, glad that we had made a double batch, and looking forward to a slow lazy Sunday. We gamed together and called it a night. Saturdays are becoming my favorite once again.